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Ten Things You Want To Say To Ten Different People
1 ] you don't need magnums, knee grow
2 ] you looked better fat
3 ] you are my reason
4 ] i miss you, but i don't trust you
5 ] i LOVE your hair
6 ] you can't love me if you just met me on Friday.. it's Sunday!
7 ] why are you still calling me!
8 ] you're almost 30...GET A FUGGIN JOB!
9 ] i love you
10 ] i quit!

Nine Things About Yourself:
1 ] i build spreadsheets for fun
2 ] when i am asked a question i don't know, i MUST find the answer
3 ] music is my air
4 ] i am a mother, a griot, a stylist, an interior designer, an event planner, a counselor, a volunteer, an intimacy consultant and an accountant... :)
5 ] i am a genuinely happy and thankful woman
6 ] i used to be a people pleaser
7 ] i wasn't truly happy until i got divorced
8 ] i'm not perfect and i love that about me
9 ] i use the bullshit i've been through as fertilizer to grow

Eight Ways To Win My Heart:
1 ] be able to hold an intelligent conversation
2 ] be actively working on your goals/dreams
3 ] be honest
4 ] be stylish, not trendy per se, but stylish
5 ] be self sufficient
6 ] be confident
7 ] if you have children, be a FATHER, not a DADDY
8 ] broaden my horizons

Seven Things That Cross Your Mind a Lot:
1 ] my son
2 ] my options
3 ] sex
4 ] friends
5 ] money
6 ] love
7 ] living my vision for my life!

Six Things You Wish You Never Did:
1 ] ...I
2 ] ...don't
3 ] ...have
4 ] ...any
5 ] ...regrets
6 ] ...lessons learned

Five Turn Offs:
1 ] nigga sydrome (apathetic, complacent stagnation)
2 ] liars
3 ] low self esteem
4 ] using your past as an excuse for mediocrity
5 ] being NEEDY

Four Turn Ons:
1 ] intelligence (my attractions are more cerebral than physical)
2 ] confidence
3 ] personal style
4 ] chivalry

Three Smileys That Describe Your Life:
1 ] :)
2 ] ;)
3 ] :P

Two Things You Want To Do Before You Die:
1 ] bring my entrepneurial endeavors to fruition
2 ] see my son become a man

One Confession:
1 ] i want someone to love me at least as much as i love myself...and be able to show me..

YOUR TURN...